yeah....Things will only get better

It was the very first time I've seen him flared up.

And well, frankly speaking, it wasn't a sight to behold. The normally soft-spoken, well mannered gentleman turned into a scary monster and blew his top. C* was at the receiving end.

I tried to pull them aside but to no avail. It's pointless trying to talk sense to an angry man. Let him cool down before anything can get in.

And what crime did C* do ? Well, being the "concern" and " friendly" person , he tried to give S* an update on how he is doing. For the uninitiated, S* is his ex girlfriend. They have been together for quite sometime until S* left him for another guy. I don't think C* knew the circumstances of the breakup and tried to be "helpful".

But one thing is for sure, the breakup ain't pretty. Then again, most, of not all are so. Hence. guys please be smart enough. Don't try that the ex is also my friend kind of shit, it just doesn't work that way. At least I know I won't like it. And I perfectly understand why he blew his top.

The unwritten rule here is such that, especially if the break up ain't pretty, you choose either one party. Nothing of the "she's/he's also my friend" kind of shit. If you don't subscribe to this, ok, you jolly well make sure that both parties don't know. Unless you are dead sure that they don't mind. Then again, if they don't mind, chances are ( though not 100% ) the exes would already be on talking terms.

Yes, it was the first time I saw him blew his top. Let that be the one and only time, please.